An Illustrated Ode to Love’s Secret Knowledge

When Dante wrote of “the Love that moves the Sun and the other stars,” he was shining a sidewise gleam on the secret knowledge of the universe, the knowledge by which everything coheres. All love is an outstretched hand of curiosity reaching for knowledge — a tender acknowledgeme … | Continue reading


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The Great Blue Heron, Signs vs. Omens, and Our Search for Meaning

One September dawn on the verge of a significant life change, sitting on my poet friend’s dock, I watched a great blue heron rise slow and prehistoric through the morning mist, carrying the sky on her back. In the years since, the heron has become the closest thing I have to what … | Continue reading


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Kinship in the Light of Conscience: Peter Kropotkin on the Crucial Difference Between Love, Sympathy, and Solidarity

“Every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you,” Whitman wrote in what may be the most elemental definition of solidarity — this tender recognition of our interdependence and fundamental kinship, deeper than sympathy, wider than love. Half a century after Whitman’s atomic the … | Continue reading


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The Shape of Wonder: N.J. Berrill on the Universe, the Deepest Meaning of Beauty, and the Highest Form of Faith

"We, each of us, you and I, exhibit more of the true nature of the universe than any dead Saturn or Jupiter." | Continue reading


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Joy as a Force of Resistance and a Halo of Loss, with a Nick Cave Song and a Lisel Mueller Poem

In this world heavy with robust reasons for despair, joy is a stubborn courage we must not surrender, a fulcrum of personal power we must not yield to cynicism, blame, or any other costume of helplessness. “Experience of conflict and a load of suffering has taught me that what ma … | Continue reading


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Making Space: An Illustrated Ode to the Art of Welcoming the Unknown

It is the silence between the notes that distinguishes music from noise, the stillness of the soil that germinates the seeds to burst into bloom. It is in the gap of absence that we learn trust, in the gap between knowledge and mystery that we discover wonder. Every act of making … | Continue reading


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Audubon on Other Minds and the Secret Knowledge of Animals

“In a world older and more complete than ours they move finished and complete, gifted with extensions of the senses we have lost or never attained, living by voices we shall never hear,” Henry Beston observed of other animals two generations before naturalist Sy Montgomery reflec … | Continue reading


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From the Labor Camp to the Pantheon of Literature: How Dostoyevsky Became a Writer

"I have nothing, except for certain, and perhaps very minor, literary abilities." | Continue reading


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Kamau & ZuZu Find a Way: A Tender Lunar Fable about the Stubborn Courage of Prevailing Over the Odds with Grace

"But we will have to find a way to live, as people do." | Continue reading


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How to Miss Loved Ones Better: The Psychology of Waiting and Withstanding Absence

On "the capacity to bear frustration without turning against one’s needy self, or against the person one needs." | Continue reading


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You and the Universe: N.J. Berrill’s Poetic 1958 Masterpiece of Cosmic Perspective

"The universe is as we find it and as we discover it within ourselves." | Continue reading


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Honing Life on the Edges of the Possible: Geologist Turned Psychoanalyst Ruth Allen on Boundaries and Limits as Frontiers of Transformation and Growth

"At almost every conceivable level of our imagining, it is impossible to create a change without a discontinuity, without a moment of not knowing who we are, or what we are going to become. Rupture precedes revolution." | Continue reading


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Winnicott on the Qualities of a Healthy Mind and a Healthy Relationship

"A sign of health in the mind is the ability of one individual to enter imaginatively and yet accurately into the thoughts and feelings and hopes and fears of another person; also to allow the other person to do the same to us." | Continue reading


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Turning to Stone: A Geologist’s Love Letter to the Wisdom of Rocks

Among the great salvations of my childhood were the rocks and minerals lining the bookshelves of our next door neighbor — a geologist working for the Bulgarian Ministry of Environment and Water. I spent long hours casting amethyst refractions on the ceiling, carving words into th … | Continue reading


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The Art of Withstanding Abandonment: The Patience of the Penguin and How Evolution Invented Faith

“Let us love this distance which is wholly woven of friendship, for those who do not love each other are not separated,” Simone Weil wrote in her soulful meditation on the paradox of closeness and separation. To be separated from a loved one — in space or in silence, by choice or … | Continue reading


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We Go to the Park: A Soulful Illustrated Meditation on Our Search for Meaning

"Sometimes it feels as if all of life is made up of longing." | Continue reading


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Batter My Heart: Love, the Divine Within, and How Not to Break Our Your Own Heart

There are many things we mistake for love — infatuation, admiration, need — but there is no error of the heart graver than making another our higher power. This may seem inevitable — because to love is always to see the divine in each other, because all love is a yearning for the … | Continue reading


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Of Stars, Seagulls, and Love: Loren Eiseley on the First and Final Truth of Life

Somewhere along the way of life, we learn that love means very different things to different people, and yet all personal love is but a fractal of a larger universal love. Some call it God. I call it wonder. Dante called it “the Love that moves the Sun and the other stars.” Becau … | Continue reading


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Your Voice Is a Garden: Margaret Watts Hughes’s Wondrous Victorian Visualizations of Sound

“I hear bravuras of birds… I hear the sound I love, the sound of the human voice,” Walt Whitman exulted in his ode to the “puzzle of puzzles” we call Being. How puzzling indeed, and how miraculous, that of the cold silence of spacetime voice emerged, in all its warm loveliness — … | Continue reading


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The Proper Object of Love: Iris Murdoch on the Angst of Not Knowing Ourselves and Each Other

One of the hardest things to learn in life is that the heart is a clock too fast not to break. We lurch into loving, only to discover again and again that it takes a long time to know people, to understand people — and “understanding is love’s other name.” Even without intentiona … | Continue reading


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Trauma, Growth, and How to Be Twice as Alive: Tove Jansson on the Worm and the Art of Self-Renewal

"Nothing is easy when you might come apart in the middle at any moment." | Continue reading


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Grace Paley on the Countercultural Courage of Imagining Other Lives

“Love is the extremely difficult realisation that something other than oneself is real,” Iris Murdoch wrote in her superb investigation of the parallels between art and morality. There could be no such realization without imagination, which is our only instrument for fathoming wh … | Continue reading


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What Makes Life Alive: Vassily Grossman on Consciousness, Freedom, and Kindness

“Every thing that lives is holy, life delights in life,” William Blake wrote in an era when science first began raising questions with spiritual undertones: What is life? Where does it begin and end? What makes it alive? But in the epochs since, having discovered muons and mitoch … | Continue reading


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An Almanac of Birds: Divinations for Uncertain Days

I have found that the surest way of seeing the wondrous in something ordinary, something previously underappreciated, is coming to love someone who loves it. As we enter each other’s worlds in love — whatever its shape or species — we double our way of seeing, broaden our way of … | Continue reading


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Beyond Either/Or: Kierkegaard on the Passion for Possibility and the Key to Resetting Relationships

"Were I to wish for anything I would not wish for wealth and power, but for the passion of the possible, that eye which everywhere, ever young, ever burning, sees possibility." | Continue reading


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Are You Living a Fairy Tale, a Novel, or a Poem?

When reality fissures along the fault line of our expectations and the unwelcome happens — a death, an abandonment, a promise broken, a kindness withheld — we tend to cope in one of two ways: We question our own sanity, assuming the outside world coherent and our response a form … | Continue reading


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Leonard Cohen on the Antidote to Anger and the Meaning of Resistance

One of the commonest and most corrosive human reflexes is to react to helplessness with anger. We do it in our personal lives and we do it in our political lives. We are living through a time of uncommon helplessness and uncertainty, touching every aspect of our lives, and in suc … | Continue reading


@themarginalian.org | 2 months ago

200 Years of Solitude: Great Writers, Artists, and Scientists in Praise of the Creative and Spiritual Rewards of Fertile Aloneness

There is a silence at the center of each person — an untrammeled space where the inner voice grows free to speak. That space expands in solitude. To create anything — a poem, a painting, a theorem — is to find the voice in the silence that has something to say to the world. In so … | Continue reading


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An Illustrated Field Guide to the Science and Wonder of the Clouds

Clouds drift ephemeral across the dome of this world, carrying eternity — condensing molecules that animated the first breath of life, coursing with electric charges that will power the last thought. To me, a cloud will always be a spell against indifference — a little bloom of w … | Continue reading


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Poetry as Prayer: The Great Russian Poet Marina Tsvetaeva on Reclaiming the Divine

"In our age, to have the courage for direct speech to God (for prayer) we must either not know what poems are, or forget." | Continue reading


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The Humanistic Philosopher and Psychologist Erich Fromm on Love and the Meaning of Respect

"Care and responsibility are constituent elements of love, but without respect for and knowledge of the beloved person, love deteriorates into domination and possessiveness." | Continue reading


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Let the Last Thing Be Song

"When I die, I want to be sung across the threshold." | Continue reading


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What Birds Dream About: The Evolution of REM and How We Practice the Possible in Our Sleep

"It may be that in REM, this gloaming between waking consciousness and the unconscious, we practice the possible into the real... It may be that we evolved to dream ourselves into reality — a laboratory of consciousness that began in the bird brain." | Continue reading


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The Sunflower and the Soul: Wendell Berry on the Collaborative Nature of the Universe and the Cure for Conflict

"We are not the authors of ourselves. That we are not is a religious perception, but it is also a biological and a social one. Each of us has had many authors, and each of us is engaged, for better or worse, in that same authorship. We could say that the human race is a great coa … | Continue reading


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Nobel-Winning Poet Joseph Brodsky on the Remedy for Existential Boredom

"Try to stay passionate, leave your cool to constellations. Passion, above all, is a remedy against boredom. Another one, of course, is pain... passion's frequent aftermath." | Continue reading


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There Was a Shadow: A Lyrical Illustrated Celebration of the Changing Light, in the World and in the Inner World

“Were it not for shadows, there would be no beauty,” Junichiro Tanizaki wrote in the 1933 Japanese classic In Praise of Shadows. As a physical phenomenon, shadows are one of the most beguiling phenomena of nature, emissaries of the entwined history of light and consciousness; as … | Continue reading


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Albert Camus on How to Live Whole in a Broken World

Born into a World War to live through another, Albert Camus (November 7, 1913–January 4, 1960) died in a car crash with an unused train ticket to the same destination in his pocket. Just three years earlier, he had become the second-youngest laureate of the Nobel Prize, awarded h … | Continue reading


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The Birth of the Byline: How a Bronze Age Woman Became the World’s First Named Author and Used the Moon to Unify the World’s First Empire

Days after I arrived in America as a lone teenager, the same age Mary Shelley was when she wrote Frankenstein, not yet knowing I too was to become a writer, I found myself wandering the vast cool halls of the Penn Museum. There among the thousands of ancient artifacts was one to … | Continue reading


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On Change and Denial

"It’s strange to feel change coming. It’s easy to ignore. An underlying restlessness seems to accompany it like birds flocking before a storm." | Continue reading


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Befriending a Blackbird

Friendship is a lifeline twined of truth and tenderness. That we extend it to each other is benediction enough. To extend it across the barrier of biology and sentience, to another creature endowed with a wholly other consciousness, partakes of the miraculous. Born in England in … | Continue reading


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The Pleasure of Being Left Alone

"An exquisite peace obtains: a drowsy, golden peace, flowing honey-sweet over my dwelling, soaking it, dripping like music from the walls... A peace for gods; a divine emptiness." | Continue reading


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The Beach and the Soul: Anne Morrow Lindbergh on the Benedictions of the Sea

"The sea does not reward those who are too anxious, too greedy, or too impatient... Patience, patience, patience, is what the sea teaches. Patience and faith. One should lie empty, open, choiceless as a beach." | Continue reading


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A Glow in the Consciousness: The Continuous Creative Act of Seeing Clearly

"Simply to look on anything... with the love that penetrates to its essence, is to widen the domain of being in the vastness of non-being." | Continue reading


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Swan Sky: A Bittersweet Vintage Japanese Meditation on Love, Loss, and the Eternal Consolations of Belonging

To me, what makes the majestic migration of birds so moving is that it is a living spell against abandonment. No one is leaving and no one is being left in this unison of movement along a vector of common purpose. It is the only instance I know of a transition that is not a ruptu … | Continue reading


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On Wanting to Change: Adam Phillips on Our Capacity for Transformation

"There is no description of a life without an account of the changes that are possible within it." | Continue reading


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John Quincy Adams on Impostor Syndrome and the True Measure of Success

“You will never get any more out of life than you expect,” Bruce Lee wrote to himself. All expectation is a story of the possible. Every person lives inside a story of who they are, what they are worth, and what is possible for their life, and suffers in proportion to how conscio … | Continue reading


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Polyvagal Theory and the Neurobiology of Connection: The Science of Rupture, Repair, and Reciprocity

"The mind narrates what the nervous system knows. Story follows state." | Continue reading


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Thunder, Bells, and Silence: The Eclipse that Went Extinct

What was it like for Martha, the endling of her species, to die alone at the Cincinnati Zoo that late-summer day in 1914, all the other passenger pigeons gone from the face of the Earth, having once filled its skies with an immensity of beating wings, so many that John James Audu … | Continue reading


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