23 Things to Quit for an Easier, Happier Life

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What can Post-Its tell us about designing software?

It’s the best-designed “thinking tool” in history. What could it tell us about designing software? | Continue reading


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It’s Time to Replace Ambition with Adaptation

The pandemic and climate crises make working ourselves to the bone in service of our own ambition seem a little silly. Let’s change that. | Continue reading


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The Thing Standing Between Procrastination and Daily Progress Is Ritual

One hour of writing, three days a week, amounts to more than it sounds | Continue reading


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How to Build Fast Friendships as an Adult

A therapist’s advice for skipping the superficial stages of making friends | Continue reading


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There Is No After

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Life Lessons from History’s Most Underrated Genius

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The Creative Power of the Index Card (2019)

An old-school tool that rivals its digital competitors | Continue reading


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Improve Your Creativity by Applying Constraints

Creativity needs a balance of order and chaos | Continue reading


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Making Good Decisions Means Taking Clear Aim

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@forge.medium.com | 4 years ago

‘Ugh’ Tasks: Why Basic Items on Your To-Do List Are Suddenly Insurmountable

You flinch every time you remember that you still have to do them | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 4 years ago

Things I Stole from People Smarter Than Me

Take them, adapt them, and apply them to your life | Continue reading


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Prepare the Ultimate Gaslighting

You are not crazy, my friends. | Continue reading


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How to Stop Doing Things, According to Marcus Aurelius

Philosopher Marcus Aurelius urged people to get rid of ‘needless actions.’ Here’s how to do that today. | Continue reading


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Productivity Culture Has an Empathy Problem

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How to Write Anything

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Prepare for the Ultimate Gaslighting

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@forge.medium.com | 4 years ago

Why Walking Meetings Work

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@forge.medium.com | 4 years ago

It feels to get everything you ever wanted

I wanted success, money, and a bit of fame. I got it all. Now what? | Continue reading


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‘Sesame Street’ Is Highlighting a Forgotten Skill: Failing

The message of the show’s 50th season is that it’s okay to make mistakes. It couldn’t come at a better time. | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 4 years ago

How to Make Writing a Lot Easier

The most productive writers know that writing is only one step in a larger process | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 4 years ago

Ichigo Ichie Better Than Carpe Diem

Magical coincidences are about attention to moments, not luck | Continue reading


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There's No Such Thing as 'Quality' Time

When you’re too busy aiming for it, you miss the moments in front of you | Continue reading


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Don't Make It Your New Year's Resolution to Quit Social Media

Getting off the ‘gram probably won’t improve your life | Continue reading


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How to Talk to Someone Whose Opinions You Can’t Stand

It’s a family gathering, not a debate you need to win | Continue reading


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The Greatest Shortcut for Leaders Is Reading Books

For 5,000 years, humans have been solving problems like the one you may be facing — and writing about it | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 5 years ago

‘Masculinity Contest Culture’ Is Killing Innovation at Work

It turns out we don’t do our best work in hypercompetitive, ‘Game of Thrones’–style environments | Continue reading


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It’s Not Enough to Be Right–You Also Have to Be Kind

Takedowns and clever quips are easy, but empathy and persuasion are better | Continue reading


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How to Like People More

Start by finding what there is to like | Continue reading


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Bad Habits of Unsuccessful People

Instead of looking for traits to emulate, focus on ones to avoid | Continue reading


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How to Train for Creative Work Like an Athlete

Want to write that novel? Approach it like a marathon. | Continue reading


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How to Become the Best in the World at Something

With skill stacking, you don’t need to be at the top to be extraordinary | Continue reading


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Brain on Improv

How to use the rules of improvisational comedy to be more open and creative | Continue reading


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The Cure for Toxic Positivity

‘Hang in there!’ can do more harm than good | Continue reading


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How to Lose a Third of a Million Dollars Without Trying

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How Do I Manage a Just-OK Performer?

Not everyone can be a rock star, even in Silicon Valley | Continue reading


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Life-Changing Habits You Can Form in 66 Days

Trust me—even you have time for a daily walk | Continue reading


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To Do Better Work, Change Your Environment

How to find your ideal space for focus, collaboration, or creativity | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 5 years ago

We overthink and how to stop overthinking

You’re missing out on what’s in front of you | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 5 years ago

A Radical Guide to Spending Less Time on Your Phone

When I used these strategies, I finally took back my life | Continue reading


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How to Use Your Calendar to Make Every Day Your Ideal Day

It’s all about creating the perfect template, then using it the right way | Continue reading


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Stop Making Everything Perfect for Your Kid

Children need to fail sometimes | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 5 years ago

You’re Not Lazy, Bored, or Unmotivated

And the cure for what really ails you can be found in an advertising slogan you’ve heard before | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 5 years ago

How to Read 2 Books a Week

Does your reading list keep growing? Did you buy books that you’ve never read? It might be time to cross more books from your list this… | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 5 years ago

The Shy Person’s Guide to Winning Friends and Influencing People

Kindness is a superpower | Continue reading


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Six Smart Ways to Assess Your Health That Have Nothing to Do with BMI

The body mass index was invented 200 years ago, by a guy who wasn’t even a doctor | Continue reading


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The Uncanny Power of Incompetent Men

Inspired by the legendary ineptness of the U.K.’s new prime minister, Boris Johnson, you too can use your incompetence to succeed beyond… | Continue reading


@forge.medium.com | 5 years ago

Can an Electronic Shock Bracelet Kill Your Bad Habits?

I turned to aversive conditioning to get my time back. It worked. | Continue reading


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