“I was seventeen. Only child, not a lot of friends. But I had a...

“I was seventeen. Only child, not a lot of friends. But I had a plan. I was going to become an actress, get a role on All My Children, meet my husband on set– and when that was all over, I’d host a talk show. Kelly Ripa did it; I could do it too. Back then it seemed like every wo … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“I was seventeen. Only child, not a lot of friends. But I had a...

“I was seventeen. Only child, not a lot of friends. But I had a plan. I was going to become an actress, get a role on All My Children, meet my husband on set– and when that was all over, I’d host a talk show. Kelly Ripa did it; I could do it too. Back then it seemed like every wo … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“People see it as a fake sport. Whenever you tell someone you...

“People see it as a fake sport. Whenever you tell someone you play Ultimate, it’s like: oh, is that where you throw a frisbee in a basket? Or is that the one where you throw it to a dog? Whenever I’m talking to someone about it, I just hope they’ll ask me enough questions so that … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“People see it as a fake sport. Whenever you tell someone you...

“People see it as a fake sport. Whenever you tell someone you play Ultimate, it’s like: oh, is that where you throw a frisbee in a basket? Or is that the one where you throw it to a dog? Whenever I’m talking to someone about it, I just hope they’ll ask me enough questions so that … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“To me she’s the most prettiest girl in the whole...

“To me she’s the most prettiest girl in the whole wide world.” | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“To me she’s the most prettiest girl in the whole...

“To me she’s the most prettiest girl in the whole wide world.” | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“It’s a love/hate relationship. Hate is too strong a word. But...

“It’s a love/hate relationship. Hate is too strong a word. But she just can’t accept that I’m not a kid anymore. I’m a lot more mature than most fourteen-year-olds; I already have a job and everything. But she’ll shut me down just to get at me. And there’s nothing I can do becaus … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“It’s a love/hate relationship. Hate is too strong a word. But...

“It’s a love/hate relationship. Hate is too strong a word. But she just can’t accept that I’m not a kid anymore. I’m a lot more mature than most fourteen-year-olds; I already have a job and everything. But she’ll shut me down just to get at me. And there’s nothing I can do becaus … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“Walked around the corner, there she was. And zing went the...

“Walked around the corner, there she was. And zing went the string of my heart. Zing! I said: ‘I gotta catch up with that girl,’ and I never did let her slip. There was a big song on the radio back then, about gettin’ married. Everybody was singing it, something about: ‘When we g … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“Walked around the corner, there she was. And zing went the...

“Walked around the corner, there she was. And zing went the string of my heart. Zing! I said: ‘I gotta catch up with that girl,’ and I never did let her slip. There was a big song on the radio back then, about gettin’ married. Everybody was singing it, something about: ‘When we g … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“Occasionally I’ll have a beer after work and break out the...

“Occasionally I’ll have a beer after work and break out the sketchbook. But I had wanted to be this great painter. I wanted to do these grand things: big, huge oil paintings. But those days of painting all the time were such a roller coaster. There were these periods of extreme d … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“Occasionally I’ll have a beer after work and break out the...

“Occasionally I’ll have a beer after work and break out the sketchbook. But I had wanted to be this great painter. I wanted to do these grand things: big, huge oil paintings. But those days of painting all the time were such a roller coaster. There were these periods of extreme d … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“We’ve been dealing with invisibility. We started realizing...

“We’ve been dealing with invisibility. We started realizing we’re kind of fading. So many of our friends say that: that they’re becoming invisible. Everybody needs a welcome from somebody else so that they can feel useful. It’s a real source of energy. And when you realize you’re … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“We’ve been dealing with invisibility. We started realizing...

“We’ve been dealing with invisibility. We started realizing we’re kind of fading. So many of our friends say that: that they’re becoming invisible. Everybody needs a welcome from somebody else so that they can feel useful. It’s a real source of energy. And when you realize you’re … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“My first end-of-life patient was a 97-year-old man. He had a...

“My first end-of-life patient was a 97-year-old man. He had a much younger girlfriend; she was seventy-four. But they loved each other so much. Back when their spouses were still alive, the four of them had been great friends. They would double date together. And when their spous … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“My first end-of-life patient was a 97-year-old man. He had a...

“My first end-of-life patient was a 97-year-old man. He had a much younger girlfriend; she was seventy-four. But they loved each other so much. Back when their spouses were still alive, the four of them had been great friends. They would double date together. And when their spous … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 4 months ago

“Just the other day a video popped up on Facebook. It was only...

“Just the other day a video popped up on Facebook. It was only five years ago. We were in the park. I was pushing her on the bike, letting go. We used to have so much fun together. We’d always get ice cream. She’s a strawberry girl. I’m a vanilla guy. Chipwich, actually. I’m a Ch … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 9 months ago

“Just the other day a video popped up on Facebook. It was only...

“Just the other day a video popped up on Facebook. It was only five years ago. We were in the park. I was pushing her on the bike, letting go. We used to have so much fun together. We’d always get ice cream. She’s a strawberry girl. I’m a vanilla guy. Chipwich, actually. I’m a Ch … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 9 months ago

“I’m taking a break from school until I figure things out. I...

“I’m taking a break from school until I figure things out. I guess I have rebel traits. There were just so many things that felt out of my control, and it bothered me. You have to wake up at this time. You have to go do this. You have to go do that. It’s like I didn’t have any or … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 9 months ago

“I’m taking a break from school until I figure things out. I...

“I’m taking a break from school until I figure things out. I guess I have rebel traits. There were just so many things that felt out of my control, and it bothered me. You have to wake up at this time. You have to go do this. You have to go do that. It’s like I didn’t have any or … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 9 months ago

“The question everybody wants to know is: why don’t the aliens...

“The question everybody wants to know is: why don’t the aliens contact us if they’re really here? The answer is simple: because it would melt your psyche to contact beings from another dimension. Whether it’s ghosts or spirits or deceased relatives or past lives or future lives o … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 9 months ago

“The question everybody wants to know is: why don’t the aliens...

“The question everybody wants to know is: why don’t the aliens contact us if they’re really here? The answer is simple: because it would melt your psyche to contact beings from another dimension. Whether it’s ghosts or spirits or deceased relatives or past lives or future lives o … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 9 months ago

“It took me a long time to figure out that not being able to get...

“It took me a long time to figure out that not being able to get my homework done doesn’t mean I’m a bad person.” | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“It took me a long time to figure out that not being able to get...

“It took me a long time to figure out that not being able to get my homework done doesn’t mean I’m a bad person.” | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“I’m turning forty in August. Three kids, full time job. All my...

“I’m turning forty in August. Three kids, full time job. All my kids are under the age of seven. The amount of mental energy it takes, you know, juggling all of them and the constant questions about nothing. I mean, mom is busy, please, just give me a second. My husband tells me … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“I’m turning forty in August. Three kids, full time job. All my...

“I’m turning forty in August. Three kids, full time job. All my kids are under the age of seven. The amount of mental energy it takes, you know, juggling all of them and the constant questions about nothing. I mean, mom is busy, please, just give me a second. My husband tells me … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“You’re a slut and a whore for the algorithm. I couldn’t do it...

“You’re a slut and a whore for the algorithm. I couldn’t do it anymore. You can never feed it enough. You start out making art, and hoping that the door will open. You’re looking for that viral moment so it opens up the door and you can do the thing full time. But you start to co … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“You’re a slut and a whore for the algorithm. I couldn’t do it...

“You’re a slut and a whore for the algorithm. I couldn’t do it anymore. You can never feed it enough. You start out making art, and hoping that the door will open. You’re looking for that viral moment so it opens up the door and you can do the thing full time. But you start to co … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“Stop signs? I don’t care about any of that shit. Don’t have a...

“Stop signs? I don’t care about any of that shit. Don’t have a license. Don’t have a license plate on my bike. I’m an outlaw through and through. I take it very seriously. The way I look at it, there’s a law of government and a law of man. And I follow the law of man. Right and w … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“Stop signs? I don’t care about any of that shit. Don’t have a...

“Stop signs? I don’t care about any of that shit. Don’t have a license. Don’t have a license plate on my bike. I’m an outlaw through and through. I take it very seriously. The way I look at it, there’s a law of government and a law of man. And I follow the law of man. Right and w … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“They told me they loved me constantly, chronically, every day....

“They told me they loved me constantly, chronically, every day. They gave me a good home. They cared for me. They did all the basics, and above all that: they worked hard to put me in a great school district. But no matter how much they provide, your parents can’t give a shit for … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“They told me they loved me constantly, chronically, every day....

“They told me they loved me constantly, chronically, every day. They gave me a good home. They cared for me. They did all the basics, and above all that: they worked hard to put me in a great school district. But no matter how much they provide, your parents can’t give a shit for … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 10 months ago

“It’s been a tough morning for me. I used to be a children’s...

“It’s been a tough morning for me. I used to be a children’s librarian. But this morning I had to call publishers and tell them not to send me any more books. I just can’t read them anymore, not like I used to. And that was hard. It felt like I was cutting off a lifeline. It’s di … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“It’s been a tough morning for me. I used to be a children’s...

“It’s been a tough morning for me. I used to be a children’s librarian. But this morning I had to call publishers and tell them not to send me any more books. I just can’t read them anymore, not like I used to. And that was hard. It felt like I was cutting off a lifeline. It’s di … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“Picture it, okay? Mardi Gras. New Orleans. Bourbon Street. I’m...

“Picture it, okay? Mardi Gras. New Orleans. Bourbon Street. I’m on college break with my three best childhood friends. Zak is there with his parents. He’s got his mom and dad with him. So it’s two different vibes, but somehow we all end up on the balcony of the same bar. Everyone … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“Picture it, okay? Mardi Gras. New Orleans. Bourbon Street. I’m...

“Picture it, okay? Mardi Gras. New Orleans. Bourbon Street. I’m on college break with my three best childhood friends. Zak is there with his parents. He’s got his mom and dad with him. So it’s two different vibes, but somehow we all end up on the balcony of the same bar. Everyone … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“They’re oblivious right now. They just think they’re at the...

“They’re oblivious right now. They just think they’re at the park. I’m the one who’s got to figure stuff out. I’ve got enough money for us to get home. Then I’ve got to find a way to get something to eat. I’ve got to pay bills. We’re starting to get foreclosure letters in the mai … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“They’re oblivious right now. They just think they’re at the...

“They’re oblivious right now. They just think they’re at the park. I’m the one who’s got to figure stuff out. I’ve got enough money for us to get home. Then I’ve got to find a way to get something to eat. I’ve got to pay bills. We’re starting to get foreclosure letters in the mai … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“The person who hurt us, hurt both of us. But it affected us...

“The person who hurt us, hurt both of us. But it affected us differently. I isolated myself. I started taking drugs when I was twelve, maybe thirteen. But she just moved on with her life. I could never understand: how can she be so happy, while I’m stuck in my head and constantly … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“The person who hurt us, hurt both of us. But it affected us...

“The person who hurt us, hurt both of us. But it affected us differently. I isolated myself. I started taking drugs when I was twelve, maybe thirteen. But she just moved on with her life. I could never understand: how can she be so happy, while I’m stuck in my head and constantly … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“I grew up with strangers. I wasn’t even with my parents from...

“I grew up with strangers. I wasn’t even with my parents from first to fifth grade. All the people that were supposed to care for me, and teach me, and guide me, they all failed me. It caused a lot of anger and honestly, a lot of heartbreak. I even wondered if my family was curse … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

“Growing up I was very much in my own head, my own world....

“Growing up I was very much in my own head, my own world. Instead of getting a babysitter my mom would just go to work and leave me at the house. We didn’t have a TV or anything. And when there’s no one to talk to, you just become your own friend. I’d look out the window and try … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

(54/54) “I wish I could see it again. Just one more time. I...

(54/54) “I wish I could see it again. Just one more time. I wouldn’t need long. I’d spend a day in Tehran. I’d visit Persepolis, to see the ruins. I’d go to Nahavand, to see my people. To meet their children. And the children of their children. And then I’d go to his tomb. He was … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

(53/54) “It’s a beautiful word in itself, Mitra. Someone who has...

(53/54) “It’s a beautiful word in itself, Mitra. Someone who has no idea of its meaning can appreciate its beauty. Mitra always had a genius for beauty. She knew it completely. She wanted it around her at all times. Even now she keeps a book of Hafez by our bedside. It’s always i … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

(52/54) “It always sits out on the shelf. It’s given structure...

(52/54) “It always sits out on the shelf. It’s given structure to my life. I’ve wanted to be a knight. I’ve wanted to be a king. I’ve wanted to be Ferdowsi, living for higher ideals. But there’s old men in Shahnameh too. And that’s my idea of a king now, a grandfather. A 𝘉 … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

(51/54) “It’s coming. In the streets it is silent. But in the...

(51/54) “It’s coming. In the streets it is silent. But in the homes, where Iran still lives, the drumbeat is building. The anger is building. The impatience is building, and soon it will come out. Iran will come out. Our young women have been leading us. But we cannot let them ma … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

(50/54) “When I was eighty I was giving an interview on Persian...

(50/54) “When I was eighty I was giving an interview on Persian television. I wanted to recite a verse, from the part of Shahnameh when Rostam selects Rakhsh as his horse. But no matter how hard I tried, I could not remember the line. For almost a minute I sat still. After that I … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago

(49/54) “We still take long walks together, even today. There’s...

(49/54) “We still take long walks together, even today. There’s a path through the forest near our house. Mitra still can’t stand the silence. She’ll walk off the path so she can hear the dry crunch of the leaves. She still talks the entire time, but these days our conversations … | Continue reading


@humansofnewyork.com | 1 year ago